"Only Love is Real" - Dr. Brian Weiss

Thought I've read all the books written by Dr. Brian Weiss. Can't believe I missed this second one in the series! Astonished by the groundbreaking evidence of reincarnation from Catherine's story in Many Lives, Many Masters, Only Love is Real reaffirms the purpose of life, that is in order to advance our souls, we must learn all these essential lessons - patience, understanding, forgiveness, kindness...and all these qualities come from one origin - LOVE.

For a relationship to work out, many people reckon if the partner doesn't have these qualities, Love is nowhere to be reached in that relationship!

Although I see it the other way around, I'm nobody to judge or criticize as I'm still learning, still digging out Love from my inner self. Perhaps Love is like a cycle; it's the origin as well as the destination. The only thing I'm sure of is it's time to reflect and reconnect. The answer is probably right around the corner - if I keep the eyes of my heart open...

“Everything in Life is Vibration” – Albert Einstein

Being inundated with the doomsday prophecy and emotionally stirred by my recent experience, I rethink the meaning of life. Trying to stay rational, so I start from a scientific perspective.

- Naturally, everything is made of atoms that are actually vibrations produced from frequencies. Tracing down, our thoughts are indeed frequencies as well. To decipher this theory, is everything simply the illusion of our consciousness, and thereby, everything is nothing! Or, do our thoughts shape our universe?

As we experience the ever-changing external physical world on one hand, and the inner sensations flowing within on the other, we should also realize the reality of our minds, our feelings and our thoughts - the subtle vibrations, the process of manifestation.

When we become aware of the fact that everything manifests in our life is because it matches the vibration from our thoughts, there's only one question left - WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT? When you send out YOUR frequency, is it a channel of greed, selfishness, hatred, negativity? Or is it Love, Understanding, Patience, Forgiveness and Kindness?


"All That We Are Is The Result Of What We Have Thought." ...Buddha

黑色星期五！

這夜，柔和的燈火映照著一杯又一杯的葡萄酒，但佐酒的卻是眼淚...舌頭嘗著淚水的微微鹹味，混著葡萄酒的酸和苦，層次格外複雜。

他如常地皺著眉頭，在我右邊耳際不停解説著各種道理，還有我從來不自覺的多項缺點，每一字都狠狠地雕進我的心裏，很痛很痛！ 空氣裏仿佛慢慢滲滿毒氣，讓人窒息。 我只想跑囘自己的空間裏，好好保護自己，我只想逃。

男人要逃避責任，列擧女人的種種缺點大概是最有力證據吧！ 好喇，我都記住了，原來之前無論怎樣了不起，如今都可以如此一無是處，聼起來也覺得自己討厭！

一踏進家門，已無力站起來了，一把吐個痛快，巴不得把絞痛的心也一併吐掉！ 定過神來，也不禁失笑，還是自己的錯，十多年來好端端地擁著理智做人，一直風平浪靜，如今自己找麻煩，活該！ 好好的睡一覺，明早醒過來的不只是身體，心眼也應該是時候清醒喇。

Electronic Spirit Communication

“Believe it or not, according to a new study, higher education is linked to a greater tendency to believe in ghosts and other paranormal phenomena." Robert Roy Britt writes in the January 20, 2006 issue of Live Science. That leads my imagination to “electronic spirit communication”.

Why not? It’s all about frequencies. I’m thinking that the internet technology may have provided a more accessible channel not only for human communication, but also the spiritual world. Phone calls from the dead and audiotape recordings containing voices of the dead have been recognized for decades while reincarnation has been scientifically proven. Before the spirits move on to the next life, they are somewhere in a dimension overlapping ours and may be so eager to communicate with the living as many of them often had unfinished business leaving behind. Without a body to operate, the technological advance probably caters a frequency platform to the ability of spirits to communicate.

The recent invention of attaching a chip on the fingers to enable freehand computer and internet operations without the need of a laptop or a palm is undoubtedly exciting. If the chip is wise enough to receive the instructions delivered by our brains, it shouldn’t be long before the communication technology breakthroughs the restrictions of this physical world, if mainstream scientists can really open up their minds to a world outside their laboratories.

If this imagination can come true, we will no longer wonder about afterlife. Will it help to right the wrongs morally? Or will people lose sympathy to victims in disasters? Or will people take advantage of the seem-to-be-endless chances?

短訊的頻率能傳遞靈秀飄逸的情意嗎？

聖誕、新年、生日、農曆年、情人節...一連串的大節日，以往都是我最期待、最興奮的日子，不是因爲有誰相伴，只因是生意最忙、收入最豐厚的時候。 還記得那段日子，每晚結帳時看到一叠叠厚厚的鈔票，心裏那安全感，最是踏實！

今年，眼前沒有厚厚的鈔票，案頭卻有一大堆文件工作，埋頭之餘，還幹了一些十多年來也沒幹過的瘋狂事，一切過後，還是自己獨個兒面對著生活的種種，氣氛中夾雜著無奈、孤獨，但也有平靜和自由。 或許，一切只視乎角度問題。 畢竟，心靈的喜悅，都應向内求，而非向外求，尤其是現今這電腦年代，看似聯係無間，但形體上的接觸可能更依稀。 無論是新朋友也好、二十多年的朋友也好，傳訊的工具大概只有手機裏的短訊罷了...煞是懷念昔日以信傳情的日子。 打開抽屜，仍有二十多年前收到的情信，薄薄的信紙已有點發黃，但以墨水筆抒寫出的筆劃溫柔秀麗，一字一句顯得份外深情！ 令人回味的絕非往事，只是那種情懷，有如楓葉飄零，縱然凋落，也保持靈秀飄逸，多麽淒美！ 短訊中的寥寥字句，能如此牽動心靈嗎？

我調皮地想出一個鬼點子，如果一天他忽然收到我用紙筆寫的短訊，他臉上驚訝的表情應該比他平常那溫柔的笑容更可愛吧！

應無所住而生其心

學會放下一點也不容易！ 朋友患了不治之症，看著自己的身體日漸衰退，向死亡慢慢步近，身心交瘁！ 較早前，因爲剛辭工，尚可騰出時間幫忙照顧。 但近來新工作越見繁忙，實在未能如前般經常探望。 奈何，朋友可能受到病情的影響，鑽起牛角尖來，甚至變得歇斯底里，令我很是内疚！

事已至此，我能做的也做了，能解釋的也解釋過了，最後，還是選擇偶爾撥個電話問候一下罷了。

面對死亡的態度，大抵與個人的性格及思想有著莫大的關係。 於我來説，我並不害怕死亡，反而有點好奇，怕的只是臨死前要承受漫長的折磨。 早已吩咐女兒，日後如果要把我滿身插滿喉管，剖這剖那來續命的話，倒不如讓我走得順利一點，也讓我這皮囊盡量漂亮一點，省得嚇怕膽小的女兒！

當事情已覆水難收，無論怎樣也應該要放下，能帶走的則應該是啓示。 畢竟，生命的原意是要讓我們在這空間學習，豐富各自的靈魂。 但願朋友能找到心靈的平靜空間...



“一切有為法，如夢幻泡影，如露亦如電，應作如是觀。” - 金剛經

Never Give Up On Someone Whom You Can't Go On Without Thinking Of Each Day

My recent project of translating children’s books is harder than I ever expected. Local educators tend to stuff everything into children’s tiny brains. I have to get mine spinning to find “baby words” to express the adult world in a fun way! But how can the adult world be fun by all means? Or can it be?

While searching for “baby words”, I travelled through time to my childhood for inspirations. Unfortunately, with the complex context in front of me, I only saw a negative picture. Little babies have to learn to deal with so many different expectations from the first day they come out of their mother’s vaginas. Well, some may enjoy an easier exit through operations but the roads ahead are equally tough.

Struggling through our adolescence, we upgrade to a more difficult level. Playing this game of adult life, we strive for the best we can, regardless of whatever it takes, all in the name of “pursuing a better life”. But do we really have a life? Or are we just living? Of all the ingredients we need in life, money is always considered the main dish. However, without love as the soup base, life is dry and tasteless.

My base has a complicated, multilayer and full-bodied texture which has been boiled down to its essence. Insisting in following my inner moonlight, I still strongly believe that life couldn’t be lived to its fullest without wholehearted devotions.

A new leaf of a new decade has been turned over. While I try my best to make the adult world a little bit more interesting for some children, I’m holding onto my belief of my positive attitude to continuously make everyone around me happy.

Alarmed by another wake-up call from the earthquake in Haiti, cherishing absolutely everything is the top priority and I shall never give up on someone whom I can’t go on without thinking of each day.